Is it true that when a person is too devoted into something, you will get hurt and sad easily by it? Even a small little thing, joke, word to a too devoted person is like having the whole world, therefore when it turn out to be a bad one. You will feel like end of the world. Is this good or bad??? Devoted is important to keep things running well and allow ppl to continue to go on and hang on there. However, it will also led ppl to be too sensitive over things that happen. Should a person devote into something? Or is there a balance for it? I really donno... I feel really xin fu when both of us are happy and enjoyed but i feel damn sad when both of us are unhappy and quarrelled. You told me before that army guys don really devoted into relationship cos they scare to be hurt or cheated by their gf outside. But we gals outside also feel this way too. We scare that u guys inside will turn too independent and will not need us anymore. After so many things tat had happened before, now i then know or can say learn. I used to belive in forever but now cherish is the most important key. When u cherish, u will care, u will love, u will think, u will give in, u will trust, u will support etc... With all these, will it go forever, no one knows, but cherish will let both of us happy.. I want u happy, You want me happy. That is enough, a simple joys that we share will always stay in our heart. I will jiayou... I will be happy.. I will be strong... I am really Learning... :)
